People seldom take the time to give positive feedback when they have received good service. Complaints - oh, yes. We don't hesitate to let others know when they have annoyed us, and I must confess that I am guilty of the same thing. However, I do attempt to compliment as often as possible meaning that it must be a conscious thing to do. I have to stop, take a moment, and say, "Thanks for the great job."
Sometimes, though, we just feel shy about telling someone that they have done good work. Perhaps we feel embarrassed about drawing attention to ourselves. You know, the warm fuzzy feeling that results is even greater for ourselves than it is for the recipient of the compliment, so I don't know why we just don't praise people more often.
Anyway, I have been helping an author with his news release. He sends me his latest update and I edit it for him. It has been a real pleasure to work with him as he actually listens to advice. Not everyone does. Although we have not met face to face, I feel that he has become a friend. We appreciate each other and we communicate well.
He sent me a very nice endorsement which will appear in our next newsletter. That is my way of thanking him.
Don't be shy about telling people that you appreciate their efforts. The good feelings flow both ways.
Denise
www.inktreemarketing.com
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